Facebook privacy settings…PATHETIC…I set my privacy settings awhile ago, so that only my friends on facebook could see my information. With all the changes that are constant with facebook, apparently anyone could see most of my information. I’m pretty pissed about it right now, Why you ask? Because my blog was exposed. There is a reason that I use my middle name (which no one can pronounce, remember, or spell) as the address for the page, so only those people who really know me, or have been approved as a facebook friend can read my information. I’m sure that some people don’t put much thought into who thier facebook friends are, but I honestly do. If I have approved a facebook friend, it might not mean that we are “bestest” friends, but it does mean that its okay for you to access my information and at least then I know that you have access to my blog. Some of the hardest and best times I have been through are documented here, along with my thoughts and emotions that are associated with those times. Things that are meant for friends, people who know and care about me. Ocassionally even seeking advice from good friends. I NEVER USE MY BLOG TO BASH ON PEOPLE OR TO BE CRUEL, so if you find something offensive, it wasn’t intended and you probably are thinking too deeply.
If you just met me and I have cleared you as a facebook friend, guess what…read away…chances are you will probably find out a lot of surprises that you didn’t know…probably not all good since my life has been a bed of roses, with plenty of thornes.
If I don’t know you, you just got my number and are creeping to find out more about me, or something of the sorts…Please get off my blog…its not intended for people to psychoanalyze me, get to know me without any effort, or worst yet, to try to use thier knowledge of my past circumstances to their advantage.
If you want to get to know me and this situation fits you, try other venues such as becoming a facebook friend, or wow maybe even talking to me in person, I know a strange concept in the 21st century 
To all, I apologize if this sounds harsh, there are just some things that I think are between friends. There are also things that are mine to tell and control who knows. After all, if I’m going to be judged by my past (which at some point I’m sure I will be), I’d at least like to know who I’m being judged by and have a defense
If you are a stranger who found this blog through a blog of my friend, disregard all of this. I have no problem with blog surfers who just enjoy completely random people’s thoughts.
